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Old 06-07-2006, 07:57 PM   #10 (permalink)
LikeMinds321
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Default Re: When married cheaters hit on you...

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Originally Posted by Tybee Swing

When married cheaters hit on you...
how do you handle them? I'm just curious. Do you find that cheaters who approach swingers just totally don't get it, have no clue what swinging is about? Do you try to educate them somewhat?
We stay clear of anyone we suspect as cheaters.

I think most cheaters don't care if there are swingers who disapprove of what they're doing. I never try to educate them when they write us.

I'm surprised she took your friendly advice so well. If she was unaware of swingers who have play rules that exclude cheaters, she may change her profile so that no one suspects she's cheating. Watch her profile over the next months and see what happens to it. If she lies and cheats on her husband, she'll likely have no problem lying to swingers if it means more people to play with.

Even if she leaves her profile as is, there are many swingers who will play with her because they don't care if she's cheating.

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