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discoandvyper · 06-07-2006, 05:39 PM

All too often the only action we're offered is with single males. That's no big deal, really. We're not looking for them often so it's a lot of "no thanks" and that's that.

However, several times we've been approached by a "single male" that wasn't so single. We're not the kind to hop in bed with someone just because they said let's go, so it's saved our butts when we get approached by these types. We talk extensively with whomever we are interested in before we hit the bedroom.

The moment it becomes apparent that the "single male that's not single" is not truly a single male, we up and leave immediately. I figure if they're going to be rude enough to their spouses and to us by doing what they're doing, we aren't being rude at all for stopping contact. We figure we're doing their wives a favor by cut and running.

There's no excuse for cheating in this lifestyle, male or female. We believe the moment you find out that's what they're doing - male or female - it's time to go look elsewhere.

I mean, who needs boiling rabbit heads on their stove from a pissed off significant other?

06-07-2006, 05:39 PM	#9 (permalink)
discoandvyper Here to Stay Join Date: Jun 2006 Posts: 94 Location: Eastern Ohio Status: Couple Swing Lifestyle Name:dynamicduoinohio	Re: When married cheaters hit on you... All too often the only action we're offered is with single males. That's no big deal, really. We're not looking for them often so it's a lot of "no thanks" and that's that. However, several times we've been approached by a "single male" that wasn't so single. We're not the kind to hop in bed with someone just because they said let's go, so it's saved our butts when we get approached by these types. We talk extensively with whomever we are interested in before we hit the bedroom. The moment it becomes apparent that the "single male that's not single" is not truly a single male, we up and leave immediately. I figure if they're going to be rude enough to their spouses and to us by doing what they're doing, we aren't being rude at all for stopping contact. We figure we're doing their wives a favor by cut and running. There's no excuse for cheating in this lifestyle, male or female. We believe the moment you find out that's what they're doing - male or female - it's time to go look elsewhere. I mean, who needs boiling rabbit heads on their stove from a pissed off significant other?