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Old 06-07-2006, 05:05 PM   #6 (permalink)
Tybee Swing
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Default Re: When married cheaters hit on you...

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Originally Posted by MoonLightKiss
Well, if it makes you feel better about having turned down a unicorn, I firmly, wholeheartedly believe you did the right thing. We would have done the same thing.
Thanks! We most definitely would not have gone there. I was just trying to be gentle with her. I thought if I helped her understand better about swinging and solid relationships, she might get something useful out of it and maybe even think about what she's doing.

I even went so far as to say this: "It's none of my business, but have you thought about trying to work on the relationship first, and try to rekindle the spark? Maybe sit him down for a good, long talk and tell him what you've been missing? I'll bet that you're missing the intimacy as much or more than anything - right? Sometimes, amazing and great things can happen when you open up your heart and really let him know."

Seemed like her marriage was going to hell in a handbasket anyway, and a little guidance wouldn't hurt anything. LOL
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