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Originally Posted by MoonLightKiss Was I wrong about them not being ready? Should I have kept my mouth shut and just told them to come here, that I was too new to answer their questions? |
You were right on to tell them the truth and what you thought about them getting into the lifestyle. You're all friends and they asked you for information and advice. Spoo and I talk about this all the time...people thinking it will fix a marriage that is already in crisis. We have seen enough, and that's not even as much as some have, to know that it takes a very strong and solid marriage to navigate through this lifestyle.
We always "debrief" as we call it after an encounter or even a night at the club...play or no play involved. We talk about the good stuff, the things we picked up on in conversations, things we saw that didn't involve us and how we felt about this or that. It gets us hot for each other on the way home
reminds us that we are on the same page about everything and let's us enjoy the lifestyle together.
Your friends sound like they have a long way to go before they should think about anything other than building a stong marriage. One that has what they are obviously lacking...trust, communication, understanding, care for each others feelings and a united front.
Good luck and remember to stay out of the line of fire.
Mrs Spoomonkey