[CuriousInOregon]

NO WAY I think you were 100% on the money how many times have we heard the seasoned Vets of this lifestyle express WHOLE HEARTEDLY not to get into this lifestyle to save a relationship? MORE times than I care to try and remember thank you, I think you were being a friend and said some good things. I guess if you want to salvage the friendship your best bet is to let them know that you will be there for them no matter what they chose to do BUT you want nothing to do with it from any standpoint other than a friend. Then your not really stuck in the middle. as far as the 2am calls go Turn off the ringer silly thats what we do hehehehe