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I am one of those lurkers that logs on practically everyday but hasn't posted anything in years. We are moving towards actually fulfilling a few fantasies, but we are definitely moving slowly. Visiting here allows me to swing vicariously through others, and also allows me to glean little bits of wisdom here and there from successful swingers. Successful meaning those who stay happily married, and devoted to each other while still enjoying the forbidden fruits the lifestyle offers.
Its funny that sometimes I forget I have been invisible on here for the most part, yet I find myself reacting when certain members get flamed, or criticized. All in all I have learned a lot from the members here, from dealing with the green eyed monster to better ways to communicate with each other.
So while we may never actually ever swing , the collective members on this board have provided more realistic relationship advice than I have ever heard from a counsellor.
Thats why I keep coming back. |