 Re: First time and need advice
In my experience it was dangerous to have an exclusive relationship with one other person. Spreading the pleasure out with others tends to minimize possible conflicts like this. For one thing, having many choices means that you don't have to worry about losing one bf when his quirks cause problems. There will be others to fill the void. Choices and variety are good.
Getting hubby invlolved sounds like a good idea too. Maybe you could visit a club and he could watch you in person. He could even get with other women and make this more than a vicarious experience. It may be more fun when he has details to share with you too.
The others are right on, as usual.
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