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Originally Posted by Julie69 Hi to everyone here. I am glad that I stumbled upon your board!
I have a question for you all and would appreciate your advice since I am new to swinging.
I am starting to swing for the first time with a single vanilla man that is an acquaintance(not friend) of my husband, just for fun of course  |
Just a semantics thing, but I wouldn't call this swinging. This is more of an open relationship since your husband knows about it but does not partake.
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So I have "pressure" form both sides here, from my husband and my partner. 
Can I have your opinions on where I should go from here?
Should I should just tell my husband what he wants to know and just not bring this subject up again with my partner, or should I just stick with telling "the basics" in respect for my partners feelings? 
My partner has talked with my huband before but doesn't want to talk to him about this issue because he knows that he won't be changing his mind. He just doesn't feel comfortable with my husband knowing the details of what we do in bed.
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Who is your primary concern, your husband or your partner? If you have to think about that, then you have made a big mistake already. If your husband wants to know, you should tell him, if you don't want to lie to your partner, then you should stop seeing him.
Husbands wishes > partners wishes.
Marriage > casual sex