[xxoticangel]

Our profile states something to the effect that we are looking for playmates first and if we become friends thats just ok too. We typically skip the profiles that state "friendship first". Our lives are too busy and hectic to spend a lot of time in the "get to know you" phase. We actually expect to play on the first date unless something goes bad, ie. major lie in their profile or having to get intoxicated first. We want swinging to be about "dirty sex" and see what happens after. Some of our best playmates have been with people that we really don't have anything other than sex in common with and would never cultivate a relationship with in a vanilla setting.