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dallmax1 · 05-31-2006, 02:49 PM

Could the friendship reference mean that they don't have sex on the first date? When trying to find a couple to meet there were a few who said "we'll be at this hotel, meet us in the bar and then we'll hit the room." Right now, and I imagine in the future, we want to meet see if there is a connection and then setup another meeting before anything will happen. So perhaps "friendship" reference is just another way of saying we don't play on the first date. The couple we have met are great, we are both comfortable with them. We invited them to a party that we throw for our vanilla friends, I don't think I would want to be with any couple that we couldn't introduce to our friends; but then again we are newbies, so perhaps that will change (I hope it doesn't).

05-31-2006, 02:49 PM	#3 (permalink)
dallmax1 Here to Stay Join Date: Nov 2005 Posts: 55 Location: MN	Re: Looking for 'friends'? Could the friendship reference mean that they don't have sex on the first date? When trying to find a couple to meet there were a few who said "we'll be at this hotel, meet us in the bar and then we'll hit the room." Right now, and I imagine in the future, we want to meet see if there is a connection and then setup another meeting before anything will happen. So perhaps "friendship" reference is just another way of saying we don't play on the first date. The couple we have met are great, we are both comfortable with them. We invited them to a party that we throw for our vanilla friends, I don't think I would want to be with any couple that we couldn't introduce to our friends; but then again we are newbies, so perhaps that will change (I hope it doesn't).