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Originally Posted by dezaray the good DEFINATELY outwieghs the bad.... but im just not sure alllll the conversation, trolling, chats, emails, meet/greets, and heated discussion over boundaries/who/when we will meet, and my nerves over all the drama is worth it, if its not gonna last. |
Swinging has caused conflict for my wife and I at times but we also think the good outweighs the bad and it's just how we aspire to be in the long run. When we start to see friction from swinging we take a break for a while to show each other that we can. When we start up again after a break it's always more fun because we start on the same page and each time we go through a swinging phase we're a little better at getting the most out of it with the least amount of drama.