When we first got started on TRYING anal sex, I just hated it. It took so much time not to mention the pain until I learned how to RELAX.
In time and lots of lube, I find it to be enjoyable most of the time.
I like to take some time out to get myself together before we have a playfull evening with each other, and I don't think preping for a little anal play takes that much extra. Now.. If you ask Male D I'm sure he would say it takes forever. LOL 20min shower, shave, shine facelick . Not bad for the END result.
So.............My vote is LOVE IT. (Just not every time)
Fem D