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Originally Posted by mickey&minnie Glad I read this one!!! My hubby and I are discussing entering this lifestyle and have discussed various topics including if we were to be in the same room while the other is playing, good point to bring up tonight, I was worried about feelings getting hurt if one was enjoying it alot. Never thought about the safety issue. New Rule for us...never alone. It was more him not wanting to be in same room with me and another man, but now I wwant him there! I was to be included if he is with another female, more fun for me LOL. I love this place, great for newbies to get advice. I think you should be in the room if you are not with a couple you have known for a long time and trust.
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Part of the 'joy' of swinging is knowing your wife/husband is having a good time. I think a mistake a lot of couples make is going seperate for the first time. The imagination can make it FAR worse than the reality. We made that mistake and for a week or two it really bothered me. Now its ok either way, but overall I think the worst thing a couple can do for their first full swap is seperate rooms.