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Old 05-26-2006, 06:32 PM   #35 (permalink)
Spoomonkey
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Default Re: boundaries, it's a hang-up or they're being jealous?

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Originally Posted by JTcamp05
I'm not trying to bash those who have "rules" I just think that if you as a couple "need" rules to prevent one or the other from doing something that makes the other uncomfortable...
Thanks for clarifying. This makes perfect sense.

When we started, we had a ton of rules. We still have "rules" but mostly those are just an acknowledgement of what we know about each other - and they are completely unnecessary. What we rely on now is respect - and I am not going to do something that would hurt Mrs Spoomonkey - and visa versa.

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