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Originally Posted by dezaray -We ONLY do this together.
-always condoms with penetration!
-I don't want other men cumming on my face, or anywhere near my crotch (for obvious reasons)
NEITHER of these above will EVER change, period.
Below, these are up for change possibly, in the future.
-No anal w/other men
-no rough stuff from new play partners, maybe down the road once there's some history established...
that's pretty much it
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Dez, in our opinion, these are not excessive rules. These are all very common rules, and not many! Most of these rules aren't about being new or established swingers, either - they're common among all kinds of swingers.
As for the same-room / separate-room thing, many couples get very turned-on by seeing their mate getting turned-on. They enjoy and prefer watching their partner while they have their fun, too - so same-room is much more fun for them and what they want. This is nothing to do with insecurity. It's a preference.
To us, the no-kissing thing
is a strict rule. We wouldn't choose to be with a couple with a no-kissing rule, personally. But, you've already stricken that off your list, anyhow.
Enjoy!
