Hi Blinkey, good question! Like somebody suggested, there are degrees to showing them off.
Like others, I've known women who were truly obnoxious about it. They used their augmented boobs
aggressively - that's the most accurate word for it I can think of. These are the women who usually went over-sized and extreme with the implants to start with, and then wear very revealing tops at all times, even to their kids' events. It's almost as if they
become the boobs - the boobs take over and define them. It makes me wonder who they were before the boobs. LOL! One of these women that comes to mind, a single neighbor/acquaintence when I was still single, would put hers
directly under the nose of any other woman's date, in a way of saying, "you know you want these more than you want those". Does that make sense?
She was also one of those flashers who would show them to everyone and anyone in the vanilla bar. This woman, women like her, often make people very uncomfortable with their behavior - and not just the women! The first couple we were with in the Lifestyle, the wife was a lot like that, too.....just all about her implants, like she and "they" were always the main attractions, and the most important thing about her.
Please don't mistake this with female jealousy - it's not about that. It's about not enjoying being around somebody who's being obnoxious. If you met a person who kept shoving their Rolex under your nose and everyone else's, talking about their Rolex continually and flashing it as if their Rolex was the only thing worth being interested in, you'd probably get bored with them, too. Even if you couldn't care less about having a Rolex, yourself. kwim?
Although I don't
personally care for implants, lots of women get them for various reasons. Many enjoy going for the more realistic look. They might dress up to enjoy this new feature, just like someone would use makeup to enhance a great pair of eyes, or dress in certain things to show off nice legs. Great....happy for them! Their boobs don't define who they are, they're just a feature they enjoy.
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Originally Posted by blinkey ... How did YOUR boob-revealing behavior change after getting your new ones? Or did it? Are they hidden away exactly the same amount as before, or are they shown off freely to anyone who will look? Or perhaps only to friends? Does it make a difference if they're vanilla? Does it matter if the friend(s) are male or female?
Cheers, ladies!
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About 5 months ago, I had bodylift and breast lift surgery. I went from
needing a bra, D-DD, to a perky C. I love them! I am wearing all kinds of things now that I couldn't wear before, like Victoria's Secret braless halter tops, some with "shelf" bras (minimal support), and I've even gone to the club braless in fairly sheer blouses. Now, I'm excited about my new look, and it makes me feel more confident wearing certain clothes. But, I'm in that second category I described - I just feel it's one of my nicer features now, and like wearing makeup on my face and styling my hair in a flattering way, I like dressing up to enhance one of my features. Likewise, after having the extra skin removed off my torso, I love the way my belly looks now....and I can wear lowrise jeans and bikinis now, too. I'm still the same person though, and I only "flash" my body parts to people who have a vested interest.