 Re: boundaries, it's a hang-up or they're being jealous?
Everyone has boundaries.
Someone here said that most of us are not true swingers because we have limits. Yet he had a limit that he wouldn't play with - guys. So he is missing out on 50% or so of the population. So are the bi-sexual people the only real swingers? Nah.
Then there is the new one I just recently saw that was about "fertility swinging". That's a limit for us.
I could go on. Not everything is for everyone.
I wish I could remember who gave me this quote a long time ago:
"It's not just about the sex, it's about the attitude"
I am here to make Elaine and I happy, if you happen to come along for that ride with us, then that is great also.
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