The Swingers Board - View Single Post - Having Boundaries = personal hangups or jealousy

**BiloxiCouple** · 05-26-2006, 09:01 AM

Everyone has boundaries.

Someone here said that most of us are not true swingers because we have limits. Yet he had a limit that he wouldn't play with - guys. So he is missing out on 50% or so of the population. So are the bi-sexual people the only real swingers? Nah.

Then there is the new one I just recently saw that was about "fertility swinging". That's a limit for us.

I could go on. Not everything is for everyone.

I wish I could remember who gave me this quote a long time ago:

"It's not just about the sex, it's about the attitude"

I am here to make Elaine and I happy, if you happen to come along for that ride with us, then that is great also.

05-26-2006, 09:01 AM	#28 (permalink)
BiloxiCouple YOUR PLACE OR OURS?? Join Date: Sep 2002 Posts: 2,755 Location: Biloxi, Mississippi Status: Couple with benefits SLS Name:graceful	Re: boundaries, it's a hang-up or they're being jealous? Everyone has boundaries. Someone here said that most of us are not true swingers because we have limits. Yet he had a limit that he wouldn't play with - guys. So he is missing out on 50% or so of the population. So are the bi-sexual people the only real swingers? Nah. Then there is the new one I just recently saw that was about "fertility swinging". That's a limit for us. I could go on. Not everything is for everyone. I wish I could remember who gave me this quote a long time ago: "It's not just about the sex, it's about the attitude" I am here to make Elaine and I happy, if you happen to come along for that ride with us, then that is great also. __________________ Billy & Elaine You can't fix stupid...