View Single Post
Old 05-26-2006, 08:26 AM   #27 (permalink)
dezaray
Active Member
 
dezaray's Avatar
 
Join Date: Apr 2006
Posts: 56
Location: Baltimore
Status: SINGLE FEMALE

dezaray hasn't quite let us get to know them yet.
Exclamation Re: boundaries, it's a hang-up or they're being jealous?

Quote:
Originally Posted by JTcamp05
I totally understand the need for new couples to talk about boundries, but if you NEED to have them.....there is a trust and/or insecurity issue in your relationship!
You are entitled to your opinion, ( i DID ask for it ) however I strongly disagree. I simply see it as someone WITH no boundaries, judging those that do have them. I don't care for being judged, it makes it seem like you think your better than me. you=general terms

2 of our main rules, boundaries, limits, whatever you want to call them:

-NO penetration w/o condoms.
I'm NOT in this to place my TRUST in strangers, sure to a degree we are, however to trust another man to fuck me with no condom is PURE INSANITY!

and

-We ONLY play together.
For US, to trust each other that one wont play without the other, IS about RESPECT, and honoring the relationship NOT jealousy or insecurity.

enough said
dezaray is offline