Re: boundaries, it's a hang-up or they're being jealous? I dont know if it would be a hang up or not with rules, I think it depends on what they are and how new or experienced the couple is for example, If the couple has readilly admited that they are NEW (2 experiences or less In my personal opinion) I dont think that it would be Unusual to find their rules being a bit more Strict next to the seasoned pro that knows what they are in for. I know for us we went in with the asperations of ANYTHING GOES just because we did not want the hang ups to hold us back But if you see a repeditive pattern of Above the waist only, or none of this or Only that then I would be sensing RED Flags and would try my luck else where so in answering your question It depends on the couples experience levels as to weather rules will cause hang ups or not not |