[04kingpin]

Let me give you a REAL example of boundries that tell an experianced swinger that they are not 'ready' to swing.


What else would you like to say, do, see, hear about or learn about.
THESE ARE THE THINGS WE WILL DO IF THE MOOD IS RIGHT:
1]Explore female-female fantasies (no set limits)
2]Your man - kissing and above waste contact with me
3]Your woman - kissing and above waste contact with my husband
4]Same room sex (with spouse)

THESE ARE THE THINGS WE MIGHT DO:
1] My husband/Your woman - everything but intercourse.
2] Me/Your husband - a work in SLOW progress, but previously let another man perform oral on me (See above). No guarantees though.

THIS IS WHAT WE ARE NOT READY FOR NOW AND MAYBE NEVER:
1] Full swap.....


This is, shall we say, a red flag

No offense Chicup but doesnt this conflict with what you just posted?
Maybe I'm reading it wrong.