 Re: boundaries, it's a hang-up or they're being jealous?
There are boundries, and then there are rule books.
Boundies we have accepted and had fun with, have included, no oral, no kissing, and no full swap (three different couples). Those are fine with us.
If you need to check the profile mid play to see if you are violating one of their rules or not, odds are they are not ready to swing in my opinion. While it may mean the couple has really talked about it, its more than we would want to deal with.
We have had wonderful soft swap experiances but if the couple isn't sure they really want to be there, we would rather not be either. |