 Re: boundaries, it's a hang-up or they're being jealous?
We started out with a lot of rules - but those kind of disappeared when we realized that the key issue is respect.
If you have that, you're fine.
I don't know that rules are really a sign of anything - everyone goes through the lifestyle their own way. Their rules might be too constrictive for us - might make the experience less than fun - but everyone has to realize their own comfort zones and recognize those with whatever boundaries are appropriate.
Spoomonkey
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