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Originally Posted by fun4Ds alot of people have wanted us to let the authorities handel this. we are not ready to risk the exposure.wouldn't that make us the bigger piece of shit in the swinging community? we would like to at least feel good that we can keep the people we have met identitys confadintial...... |
I would think the only people who would be upset are the people who drugged you. I would also like to think that the rest of the community would be happy that you 'outed' possible, and probable, sexual predators in your midst. Who among the people you've met would be outed besides the one's who did this? Well, if there were 3 couples there, and only one was responsible, then I guess that one other couple might be outed too.... but then again, perhaps not. And frankly, you don't know which of the other 2 couples were responsible. If it was the other 'guest' couple, I would think the hosts might actually be happy that you are concerned about the entire communities well being at heart. Does the host couple have kids? at home? perhaps everyone was drugged and the kids were drugged and raped later. Perhaps the other couple drugged both you and the hosts and raped all of you. Perhaps that's why you were banned. Maybe the other couple told the hosts the same thing happened to them so the only one's left do have done it was you. And you think that isn't going around the community if that's the case? Of course it is. If you address the hosts, simply ask them to forgive you for however you may have acted, that has gotten you banned etc. But that you really don't know what that was, so could they please at least explain it to you.
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Originally Posted by fun4Ds we were raped and brain fucked. |
You're right you were. If not sexually, though I doubt that, at least emotionally and mentally. And I agree with others, at least seek victim counseling.
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Originally Posted by fun4Ds i guess its my falt. |
That's the same as the 'rape' victim feeling like it was their fault. It's never the victims fault. There is no excuse. How could it be your fault? Did someone ask you if you wanted a roopy and you told them yes? Did you bring it with you and take it yourself? Did you ask someone if they had the drug so you could take it? How is it your fault. Think about that. It's never the fault of the victim.
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