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Old 05-24-2006, 09:39 AM   #1 (permalink)
dezaray
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Question Which male initiates a MFM?

I know in the end its all determined what makes me most comfortable since I'm the only female in this scenario, although I would like to hear other women's experiences in this to help me figure out how to go about this.

We have thrown around a few scenarios however, can you realllly plan all the details and expect it to go that way? Isn't that less fun? Plan as you go, aside from boundaries being set upfront? Were very new to this, so we've not even done a MFM together yet, but I look forward to it! although at the same time I think I'll be nervous when the actual time comes.... I think I may want my man to start the whole thing off.... although I'm not sure about this.

My rules in a MFM are:
-only my man gets anal
-no rough stuff from the other guy

Women, for your 1st MFM did your man start off? Did the other male start off? What did you find worked best in this situation?

thank you all in advance
Dez
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