 Re: Wtf Happend
Please take the time to find some victim counseling. Be it hotline (1-800), therapist, psychologist or whatever you can lay your hands on. At this stage both of you NEED someone on the outside of the situation to talk to, someone that can relate to being a victim and who is trained to recognize all of the symptoms you are experiencing !! Often times situations like these lead to severe depression, loss of self esteem, on and on and it can go as far as financial devastation, even suicide. Not saying that you will or are at that this point, rather that it has happened to more than one person.
Prior to leaving my last place of employment, I was in daily contact with vast numbers of young females who had been preyed upon in one fashion or another. Most had turned to drugs, pills and sex to ease the pain ALL of them spiraled out of control and were on the way to rock bottom. To date some are dead, some are still slumped in the corner of a bar, using Xanax, GHB or Roofies to sleep off a 3 day coke binge, others are in the state or federal prison system. EVERY LAST ONE OF THEM TURNED TO SELF-HELP TO DEAL WITH THEIR PROBLEMS !!
Again, to reiterate, I am well aware that you are not at this point. However I do detect a certain sorrow or "Why me" vibe in your posts and think you should seek outside help to gain some additional coping skills while the impact is relatively minimal.
Happy thoughts and Best of luck to you
Angedky(mr)
p.s. ........ the P.M. box is always available if you want to vent in private
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