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Originally Posted by wetpanties It sounds like your b/f needs to learn the meaning of respect and love. It's apparent he doesn't respect your feelings and if he truly LOVED you, he would respect your wishes. He appears to be very self-centered and selfish (like my ex-husband was). The best day of my life was when I dumped him and found someone who truly cares about me and my feelings. You should have more self esteem - you DESERVE to be with someone who will treat you right. You are better off being alone than being with someone that doesn't respect you. |
Dito to all of the above.... in fact, here's an example (and real, not just an 'example')... Hi all, Mr. C here. Well, Mrs. P doesn't think she's quite ready to do this swinging thing yet. We've talked about it quite a bit, and we both feel that she isn't ready to do it. She says she DOES definitely want to, in a while, not quite right now. So, in respect for her wishes, we're just going to hang out and chat with all the great people on here and other online sites. Whether she ever becomes ready to do it, is up to her. If it never happens. I love her all the same, and wouldn't do it without her EVER. And NEVER if she says she has decided she doesn't want to. So, with that.... well everyone here... we're not going anywhere.

just not swinging. At least for now.
As for the unregister guest poster of this thread, have your b/f read that. That should be HIS response to you as well. And believe, my wife and i love each other completely. And respect each other. When she decide's she's ready... then we'll pick this up where we left it off. If she never decides she's ready, then I'll love her with all my heart, and we'll have great sex with each other with our own little fantasies.
Mr. C