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Originally Posted by NewAndScared I would wait. You would never be able to live with yourself if you miscarried due to STD or anything else. |
Dito Swinging to us is just an extra activity that Spoo and I enjoy together it is not our entire life. Some things about "us" are and will always be special and private and always come before swinging. You can always swing, drink, smoke, party...whatever, but at various times there are somethings more important then fun and vices to enjoy. On of those things that are tops on our list are anything with family. Pregnancy is a special time for both of you and you should be protecting your health, and the baby's health and enjoying the stages together.
To us there is nothing that we do or enjoy that can't be given up for however long it is needed.
Just my 2 cents worth but I'd wait...you can always swing later but you can't fix something that harms your baby.
Mrs Spoomonkey