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Originally Posted by sereneiders I believe this guy problem had to do with the "surprise factor". I mean, either he knew this may happen and didn't told you before, or he didn't knew but happend. The problem is aroused when this become unconfortable enough for the players as for someone to quit playing, which at last is what happend: you switched back partners. |
Thanks sereneiders! The guy does have some issues with ED. He and his wife explained it all in depth the first time, months ago. We really didn't
need all of that explanation, as it was a non-issue to us...we are fully okay with it and with working with it. We've assured them it's totally fine by us. They've always seemed comfortable and at ease with us.
But in the moment, at this occasion last weekend during our "reunion", he got all panicky and made me pretty uncomfortable. Not by his ED, but by his reaction to it. Everything shifted quickly and went on smoothly from there, but the guy wasn't the one making the transition.
I thought this might actually be pretty common, and that other women here must have been in this same position with an upset man, a time or two.