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Originally Posted by VanHlebar From my perspective, I don't ever expect the lady to do anything to "fix" the problem. If it isn't working, I will usually say so and then just go back to pleasing her and see where nature takes us.
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That's great! Thanks for sharing.
It sounds like you have your plan of action well thought-out in advance, so you know how you'll manage things if they should go that way. That would have been great, if the guy we were with had switched gears and went with some kind of solution he could be comfortable with, rather than spiraling down and getting more and more frantic. It left me feeling like I was holding the bag and not sure where to go with it. I'm glad that when I looked at my hubby, he changed the scenario around for all our sakes.