 Re: Wtf Happend
My God, my heart goes to you both. What a horrible thing to have happen. And a heartfelt thanks for posting it. So many terrible things happen that people are unaware of because others are afraid to talk about them. If one person learns to never let a drink out of their site, or never allow someone else to make it, then this post was worth it.
But my advice is to call the police. Even if your intentions were to have sex at this party, your choice of partners was taken when the drug entered your system, and your choice of changing your mind and saying no up to the last possible minute was taken away too. Its rape, plain and simple. I would also agree with others. Don't call the hosts and give them a heads up. Surprise is the best element when trying to conduct an investigation. (Or at least that is what my dad tells me.) The hosts may not be guilty, or they might. Unless you know for sure who did this shitty thing to you, I would let the police start banging on these peoples doors. Let them find the ones who did this, and string em up.
And do not blame yourselves. You didn't purchase the drug or put it in your drinks, so in no way should you feel like you are at fault. Nor do I believe you should beat yourself up over feelings that you should have prevented it. There are some sad ass fuckers out here who get off on screwing with people. Unless you have a crystal ball that works, and seen this was gonna happen, put the blame where it belongs. ON THEM.
I hope all works out for you.
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