We have been in the lifestyle for about 8 months but got to say talked about it for around 2 years. We set the the ground rules and then started to "play". Not saying things have been easy as rules seem to change with each new couple. What I'm trying to say is that communication is the key. Each needs to know what the other one is thinking, plus each needs to be able to speak freely and openly.
We were told of this site about 3 months after we entered the lifestyle. I enjoy the board and use it to increase my knowledge. These guys here are great and very open.
We are also from a small town area and have stayed away from the area. I have a professional job so don't want it thru work what I do on my off time. We have found couples that are close enough to go and see. We have 5 kids at home...(his and ours). 2 of the kids are over 16, we have been very discrete and to my knowledge they do not know much except that we spend some time with some friends.
We like to meet with the couple first. Usually go thru emails and/or phone calls before we actually meet in person. I don't know if I would feel real comfortable just doing a "1 night thing" but to each his own.
Well that's my 2 cents. Hope it helps a little.
Rhonda
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