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Originally Posted by Mrs Spoomonkey That aside you're still not really sure if you were raped after the drug took affect......
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........concern then my "lifestyle" being made public over a police report. |
I tend to agree. Although I have never been in this situation in any setting... and as we are new to the swinging lifestyle... I would like to think that I'd rather see these bastards f*cked for their deeds. Remember, one of the most common effects of the drug is actually not being able to tell if anything at all had happened to you. In rare cases, the victim remembers 'something' happening, but not what, and remembers not being able to stop it. But in most cases, there is no memory of anything happening and often no 'feeling' of something happening. Second.... no one has to say to the police "I was there to f*ck other people as I'm a swinger and this was a swinger house party." All they need to know is that "a few couples who are friends were gathered for a weekend get-together."
I would hope that in your position, we would feel the police needed to be notified, and the lifestyle, or what others think of me for it, be damned.
CandP