Thank you all. I for one feel better. My husband has not pushed me in any way other than asking me to consider and be open to ideas and concepts that I would never had done before. It has made me more confident, and our commetment stronger. We may be newly wed, but, I am 42 and he is 37. I feel as if I have finally begun to live. I'm going to make up for lost time with quaility living. Thank you for your candor, and this site. We've been all over the net, and magaizines, and whereever we thought we could pick up a few tidbits of information. I come from the knowledge is power sort. In other words, I am a career student.
To the person who asked if perhaps my husband was less than comfortable with the idea of me forming an attachment, funny you should mention that, so did I earlier this morning. He says that may be a part of it.l I beleive it is part of it, but, not all. Actaully, that started out as my idea. I have very mixed feelings about it. For the most part, a person is not attractive until I have a good sence of who they are. But when that rule came up, I also didn't want to chance and still don't anyone causing problems for us. Between the two of us, we have 4 children (the brady bunch). I work where even the idea of this would not go over well at all. We live in a small town, and everyone knows or is realted to eveyone else. So, the stranger that we would never see again, seemed to be a good idea on paper at least. But, when it came down to it, not so good for me, but, he ended up likeing the idea. So....you see, we have talked and at great lenght. Keep sending words of wisdom, and your experiences on. They are of great benifit. And please pardon my typing. Laptops and I don't get along so well.
Us2 back to you!
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