You know, I can't give you much advice except to tell you to continue to be open and honest with each other. You may yet find common ground and discover a situation where you can both be turned on and comfortable at the same time.
Have you asked your husband why he prefers more 'anonymous' sex? Is it possible he's afraid that you may form an attachment to someone you 'know' and leave him? It appears that your relationship is young and he may be a little insecure about your love for him.
Please don't be offended if I have that all wrong; it's difficult to understand all the background from an exchange of online posts. But, it's something that occurred to me and I thought I'd ask.
-B
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