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LOL_OMG · 05-18-2006, 03:39 PM

I'm not of the opinion that you should simply kick her out and get a divorce. After all, you have a family and a child here. My guess would be that her self esteem kind of took a dip after the baby when she put on some weight, and having some guy pay attention to her is a bit of an ego boost. It also seems that you're not quite the "take charge" guy, and if she whines enough she can do whatever she wants.
You need to talk together, serious talk with no child to interrupt and no booze involved. Let her know that what's going on is NOT okay.

05-18-2006, 03:39 PM	#39 (permalink)
LOL_OMG Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Dec 2005 Posts: 938 Location: where we're at Status: Couple SLS Name:LOL_OMG	Re: Major Problem…No One To Talk Too! I'm not of the opinion that you should simply kick her out and get a divorce. After all, you have a family and a child here. My guess would be that her self esteem kind of took a dip after the baby when she put on some weight, and having some guy pay attention to her is a bit of an ego boost. It also seems that you're not quite the "take charge" guy, and if she whines enough she can do whatever she wants. You need to talk together, serious talk with no child to interrupt and no booze involved. Let her know that what's going on is NOT okay. __________________ Somebody better go back and get a shitload of dimes!!!