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Originally Posted by nexteltx One other thing...why is it that my wife with someone would interest me...what the f' is that about... |
Well, I don't know how to answer that for you... but for me, to be honest with you, first let me say.... neither of us are in the least willing to do anything without the other there... For me there's some safety reason for that... My wife is a very small woman (only 5') and very petite.... a midget could overpower her easily. Second we won't play alone because we agree that this for our mutual enjoyment, so if it's mutual, it needs to be done together (mutually)
As for him being with my wife (although the 3rd is primarily for me, being bi and all), I do get enjoyment from the thought of seeing her with another guy.... the reason, for me at lease, is that as I do love her with all my heart, I TRULY get very excited and happy seeing her getting all the pleasure she can... and she feels the same for me. One of the most exciting and erotic things for me is knowing how turned on she is. I love to see the one I love truly totally horney. And if a 3rd can do that for both of us... all the better. However, in your case, HE'S NOT A 3RD.... he's "the other man"... and you're not there.
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