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Originally Posted by nexteltx I just have a sneaking suspision that if I let her go thinking that it still is for us...I think it'll backfire something fierce... |
Yes. Promote that feeling from a sinking suspicion to a confirmed likelihood. If she really is under the impression that it's exciting you and it really isn't then yes it really will backfire and it won't necessarily be her fault when that happens.
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Originally Posted by nexteltx One other thing...why is it that my wife with someone would interest me...what the f' is that about... |
There's nothing wrong with that. I love my wife and I love watching my wife fuck. I love thinking about other guys wanting her. All of that is normal enough and it can be a fun and positive thing if you go about it carefully. You are so very not alone in having those feelings and there's nothing wrong with them.