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Originally Posted by nexteltx Wow I was afraid of this reaction...I guess I knew it thats why I'd been all upset...I just don't want to believe it...And it's pretty unanomous feedback...What am I going to say to her that I haven't before...? Is there no doubt about her intentions...? |
If you really want to watch her with another man... tell her "I'll go with you, or pack a bag before you leave." then go to wal-mart (every town in US has one now don't they?) and get new locking doorknobs and deadbolts. Disconnect the doorbell and don't answer the door when she knocks. Let 'him' take care of her and house her and whatever.... then let it be his problem to deal with when she does the same to him. Sorry.... I hate the idea of being in your position. And in my phylosophy (for what that's worth) the sooner you can start putting your own happiness first again, the better.
Put your foot down man. It's not a game she's playing. It's not a sex toy she's playing with... neither you nor the other guy. IT'S A COUPLE OF REAL HEARTS AND A HUGE SET OR REAL EMOTIONS! If she won't let you go with her, and won't stop... then..... there's the freaking door! Drop you key on the coffee table on your way out. ..... and here's your suitcase.... don't forget it. You'll need when you find a place to stay.
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