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Old 05-18-2006, 02:04 PM   #14 (permalink)
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Default Re: Major Problem…No One To Talk Too!

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Originally Posted by nexteltx
So it definetely sounds like she's doing this for herself and not our fantasies...?
If you're communicating poorly with her then she may not be aware of that. One way to interpret what you wrote is that you enjoy what's going on and you're allowing it. She has kept you informed and repeatedly asked permission and your response has been to go "okay sure, well ... I don't know, twist my arm..." She probably thinks you're getting off on it just like she is. Even I think that you're getting off on it just like she is.

A guy who I met recently who shares my love for watching the little wife act like a slut, told me a story at a party after fucking my wife senseless got him to open up about his fantasies. One time this co-worker of his wife somehow found out that they swing and started sniffing around and making hints that he'd like some. But he wanted to just see her, not a threesome. So the couple completely played the guy for their fantasy. She agreed and made the guy feel like it was a one-time, totally clandestine meeting. In reality her husband was hiding in the closet the whole time and he saw and heard everything. All three of them thought it was INSANELY hot and the guy never even found out that he had been monitored. And no he never got a second visit.
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