The Swingers Board - View Single Post - How long is reasonable for "getting to know you" phase?

Additude · 05-17-2006, 05:38 AM

My response to the scenerio you described is that this couple is testing the waters and using you to do so.

We have never met for the first time to just "get to know". We have always had expectations to have sex on the first meet and it has always happened that way.

We are not into dating couples, romancing them, becoming friends and the whole rest of whatevers. For us it's recreational sex. We get to know a couple on line, talk to them via phone, meet and have sex. If we click personally then we meet more than once if possible.

Honestly, we just don't have time to play the dating game. When we have one night to do it in, then we want to make the most of it.

05-17-2006, 05:38 AM	#10 (permalink)
Additude Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Apr 2002 Posts: 623 Location: OBX-NC	Re: How long is reasonable for "getting to know you" phase? My response to the scenerio you described is that this couple is testing the waters and using you to do so. We have never met for the first time to just "get to know". We have always had expectations to have sex on the first meet and it has always happened that way. We are not into dating couples, romancing them, becoming friends and the whole rest of whatevers. For us it's recreational sex. We get to know a couple on line, talk to them via phone, meet and have sex. If we click personally then we meet more than once if possible. Honestly, we just don't have time to play the dating game. When we have one night to do it in, then we want to make the most of it.
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