The Swingers Board - View Single Post - How long is reasonable for "getting to know you" phase?

WesternSwing · 05-17-2006, 04:57 AM

I think if you are truly okay with it, you know if you are going to have sex with someone in the first 15 minutes of a "date". Doesn't mean it will happen the first time you meet, but it definitely should the second if it ever will.

I think there allot of couples that are testing the waters and finding what their boundries are but are too afraid to say it up front. We know couples that are testing the waters and they have told us up front, and that has been okay with us. We see them at parties and clubs and love to go out with them once in a while. But if time is limited then we will tend to gravitate toward sure things.

So my short answer... first date should be an option, second date definitely.

Mr. WS

05-17-2006, 04:57 AM	#9 (permalink)
WesternSwing South of disorder Join Date: Mar 2004 Posts: 2,973 Location: Utah Status: Single Male	Re: How long is reasonable for "getting to know you" phase? I think if you are truly okay with it, you know if you are going to have sex with someone in the first 15 minutes of a "date". Doesn't mean it will happen the first time you meet, but it definitely should the second if it ever will. I think there allot of couples that are testing the waters and finding what their boundries are but are too afraid to say it up front. We know couples that are testing the waters and they have told us up front, and that has been okay with us. We see them at parties and clubs and love to go out with them once in a while. But if time is limited then we will tend to gravitate toward sure things. So my short answer... first date should be an option, second date definitely. Mr. WS
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