The Swingers Board - View Single Post - How long is reasonable for "getting to know you" phase?

LOL_OMG · 05-17-2006, 12:59 AM

This is interesting because it's happened to us recently. Attractions are there on all sides, we have had some great times together laughing and even travelling. They are not newbies, quite the contrary.

I have a feeling we've maybe gotten to know each other too well, and I realize how stupid this sounds as I'm typing it. Our bond (especially between the women) has grown into almost best friends. We've had opportunities for a full swap but it never happened.

It's come a time with these two that we will have to talk seriously and decide what we're doing here. The friends we've made, even if no sex is involved is totally worth it...but the not knowing what the exact relationship is, kind of leaves too many questions.

Mrs LOL

05-17-2006, 12:59 AM	#4 (permalink)
LOL_OMG Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Dec 2005 Posts: 1,005 Location: where we're at Status: Couple Swing Lifestyle Name:LOL_OMG	Re: How long is reasonable for "getting to know you" phase? This is interesting because it's happened to us recently. Attractions are there on all sides, we have had some great times together laughing and even travelling. They are not newbies, quite the contrary. I have a feeling we've maybe gotten to know each other too well, and I realize how stupid this sounds as I'm typing it. Our bond (especially between the women) has grown into almost best friends. We've had opportunities for a full swap but it never happened. It's come a time with these two that we will have to talk seriously and decide what we're doing here. The friends we've made, even if no sex is involved is totally worth it...but the not knowing what the exact relationship is, kind of leaves too many questions. Mrs LOL
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