Funny when I was single and not in the lifestyle I would pick up men and go off with them if the mood struck. Before I realized my high sex drive could also be used in a relationship
Never had a problem or an issue with safety.
When we play we play at house parties so usually we know some of the attendees and as you are in a house there are others around to help if something went wrong. Many in our group play separate (we don't).
Can't see going off to a hotel with someone though that I didn't know without my partner.
Why not go to an on premise club or private party then if she wants to go off and play with a stranger she can but more safely.
