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Originally Posted by JandT_Elkhart To answer your most direct question about ED drugs. I just went to my Dr and said,
"Ya know, I don't really have any problems the FIRST time, but on some special occasions I'd like to be able to do it a couple times. Is there any reason I can't get a prescription for those special times?"
Dr. gave me a sample of 5 50mgs, and a scrip for 5 of the 100mg Viagras, told me to cut them in half (they are cheaper at 100mg) and I was on my way. A year later he refilled. I'm almost another year in, and have 1 100mg left... you can tell I don't use them very often  |
Thanks for your response. I assume that the medicine has worked for you the way you wanted it to. In my original post I never really said how my hubby feels about all of this. He doesn't seem to have a problem with the way things are (me-multiple orgasms, him-one orgasm.), but he has mentioned that it would be nice to have marathon sex on certain occasions. Such as when we have a rare opportunity to be away from our kids, or when we go on a solo vacation together. (We really want to go to one of the Hedo resorts or Desire - a perfect place for marathon sex.)
I really don't have a problem with our day to day sex life. I feel blessed to have the partner that I have. We have such a great connection and trust that I think is essential for an incredible sexual relationship, and he really knows how to please me. I think I just need to get more comfortable with the fact that part of his pleasure is seeing me get off and him knowing that he is the one responsible for my euphoria.
Women are by nature peacemakers and very giving individuals. We like to please others, sometimes at our own expense. With that said, it's rather ironic that women were blessed with the ability to have multiple orgasms. It puts us in the situation of abandoning these instincts and allowing someone else to serve us. It is really not that surprising that such a large percentage of women haven't had an orgasm in their lifetime - maybe some of these women just can't let go of their natural instincts to please others and just lay back and enjoy themselves. I could delve deeper into this and point out that most women can't orgasm through intercourse alone, so they HAVE to be pleasured in other ways to reap the ultimate reward. My point is that in the bedroom nature forces us into a role reversal where the man is doing a lot of the work and the woman just lies back and enjoys herself - much like a man sitting in his lazy boy, watching a football game, knocking back a cold one while his wife slaves in the kitchen to make him something to eat. Just a little food for thought....