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Arrival5 · 05-11-2006, 07:34 PM

Okay, here is my situation; the sexual M.O. for me and hubby generally consists of lots and lots of foreplay (oral sex, masturbation, toys, toys and more toys) all directed towards me with the result of my having several orgasms, and then to finish off the night we do something -regular sex, anal sex, blow job or hand job to get him off. Once that happens we are done for the night - meaning his orgasm is more like the encore.

Believe me, I am not complaining at all - I love the attention, I love getting off facelick , and he seems to really enjoy assisting me (Technically he "fucks" me with several of the toys we have - but that doesn't really count for his pleasure IMO). I just feel bad that he gets one shot a night and that is it. Ever since we got out of college (we have been together for 15 years, married for 11 years.) he seems to only have one orgasm in him a day. Maybe we are starting too late in the evening and the one orgasm just wipes him out. Although we have tried to sneak in a blow job or quickie in the late morning, early afternoon with the hopes of picking things up later in the evening, but that rarely has worked. Exhaustion sets in by bed time and we never seem to find our way back.

I have wondered if one of the ED drugs could help us. We weren't sure if the doc would give him a prescription since he can in fact get an erection - he just can't get a second or third or fourth......and we thought that wanting multiple erections may be too greedy a reason to ask for said drugs. I, however, am ready to get greedy and go into the docs office and ask for them myself. It just feels so unfair for me to have such a mind blowing, crazed, orgasmic night and all he gets is this one 5 to 10 minute shot.

What do you guys think? Have any of you men out there had a similar problem and did ED drugs help? I read a lot of the forums about Viagra and such, but most of the men who posted seemed to not have a problem with multiple erections in one night - just the intensity of those erections, and ED drugs helped them have better hard-ons.

Also, if we were to try any drugs, do you have any recommendations? Hubby suffers from the occasional migraine, so I am a little leary since I have read that certain ones can cause bad headaches.

Thanks for any advice you can give me!!!

05-11-2006, 07:34 PM	#1 (permalink)
Arrival5 Active Member Join Date: Apr 2005 Posts: 20 Location: Richmond, VA	Erection Questions Okay, here is my situation; the sexual M.O. for me and hubby generally consists of lots and lots of foreplay (oral sex, masturbation, toys, toys and more toys) all directed towards me with the result of my having several orgasms, and then to finish off the night we do something -regular sex, anal sex, blow job or hand job to get him off. Once that happens we are done for the night - meaning his orgasm is more like the encore. Believe me, I am not complaining at all - I love the attention, I love getting off facelick , and he seems to really enjoy assisting me (Technically he "fucks" me with several of the toys we have - but that doesn't really count for his pleasure IMO). I just feel bad that he gets one shot a night and that is it. Ever since we got out of college (we have been together for 15 years, married for 11 years.) he seems to only have one orgasm in him a day. Maybe we are starting too late in the evening and the one orgasm just wipes him out. Although we have tried to sneak in a blow job or quickie in the late morning, early afternoon with the hopes of picking things up later in the evening, but that rarely has worked. Exhaustion sets in by bed time and we never seem to find our way back. I have wondered if one of the ED drugs could help us. We weren't sure if the doc would give him a prescription since he can in fact get an erection - he just can't get a second or third or fourth......and we thought that wanting multiple erections may be too greedy a reason to ask for said drugs. I, however, am ready to get greedy and go into the docs office and ask for them myself. It just feels so unfair for me to have such a mind blowing, crazed, orgasmic night and all he gets is this one 5 to 10 minute shot. What do you guys think? Have any of you men out there had a similar problem and did ED drugs help? I read a lot of the forums about Viagra and such, but most of the men who posted seemed to not have a problem with multiple erections in one night - just the intensity of those erections, and ED drugs helped them have better hard-ons. Also, if we were to try any drugs, do you have any recommendations? Hubby suffers from the occasional migraine, so I am a little leary since I have read that certain ones can cause bad headaches. Thanks for any advice you can give me!!!