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Originally Posted by ultimatecouple9 The real big question we have is what happens the very next day after your first time? Do you feel auckward, and if we do, how do overcome the auckwardness? |
No, in our case there was no awkwardness. By 'awkwardness' I think you're asking whether people literally coming between you sexually make you feel like people have come between you emotionally. My wife and I felt much closer after our very first time because we were on the same page and it felt like an accomplishment that we had made together. Not more distant in any way.
I agree with another reply that if you go into any experience, the first or the 100th, expecting something dreadful to happen, then something dreadful will happen. If you go into it just going 'well whatever happens hopefully my little wife and I will have a blast tonight' then that's what will happen. Other people around you read your energy and you're a self-fulfilling prophesy whether you want to be or not.