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Old 05-08-2006, 09:23 PM   #10 (permalink)
DBL D
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Default Re: Does the marrige change? Better/Worse

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Originally Posted by Edison Carter
Susan here--After our first foursome we went to the car and high fived each other and laughed oursleves silly. Then, we fucked like mad minks in March.
There ya go!

I don't think communication at that time will help. Fem D had a difficult time and she never has let me in on what she felt. There were some tears...which was the exact opposite reaction I was hoping for. Not saying you shouldn't make yourself available. The thing that seems to have happened with us is that time had to pass. She had to eventually see that this is really just to enhance our relationship and then discover how it really could. If she never would've seen this aspect then it would've been curtains for the lifestyle.

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Originally Posted by intuition897
...Maybe you don't understand why just yet, but you know it hurts. You could either "take your ball and go home", or you could politely interject their conversation and ask to speak privately to your wife...
I think he knows why it hurts, what he is going to need to do is find out a way to not have it hurt.

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