 Re: Does the marrige change? Better/Worse
One other thing to consider.
If one of you absolutely loves the new adventures and the other finds they don't it can lead to a long-term problem.
We had some experiences over 30 years ago. I remember thinking that if this is what heaven is like then I'd turn religious. She did enjoy during but couldn't deal with them after each experience so we stopped.
Over the years we've talked and she's agreed to try different things at different times, but each time she's gone back into her shell again.
I sometimes wonder if the ups and downs she's put me through with her attempts to join me have been worse than if she never tried at all.
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