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kandr2000 · 05-08-2006, 01:57 AM

Although I am not really answering your question, I just wanted to let you all know that when I divorced my first husband 10 years ago, I have my two kids since then 24/7. My dad watches them sometimes but they didnt start seeeing their dad on the weekends until this year. And it still isnt an every weekend thing, I have FULL physical and legal custody.

Also if they are working single parents as I was back then, I only had a babysitter when I went to work(dad again) and I worked from 3:30 pm to 2am. So it may not be cheating. I played plenty when I was single, and always had to work it around my kids(my first priority) and work. When you are just fu**ing someone you really dont want them around your kids......just as you wouldnt bring most people your swinging with home to meet your kids.

I have 2 kids from previous marriage (we have custody of) My husband has 2 from previous marriage (we have custody of them too) and we have 2 together(under 4 years) His two for years where only seeing their mom 1st and 3rd weekend.

All Im trying to say is you never know, trust your instincts and ask questions......Thats the only way to know for sure.

05-08-2006, 01:57 AM	#14 (permalink)
kandr2000 Active Member Join Date: Mar 2006 Posts: 47 Location: Porterville, ca Swing Lifestyle Name:kandr2000	Re: What's our next move? Although I am not really answering your question, I just wanted to let you all know that when I divorced my first husband 10 years ago, I have my two kids since then 24/7. My dad watches them sometimes but they didnt start seeeing their dad on the weekends until this year. And it still isnt an every weekend thing, I have FULL physical and legal custody. Also if they are working single parents as I was back then, I only had a babysitter when I went to work(dad again) and I worked from 3:30 pm to 2am. So it may not be cheating. I played plenty when I was single, and always had to work it around my kids(my first priority) and work. When you are just fu**ing someone you really dont want them around your kids......just as you wouldnt bring most people your swinging with home to meet your kids. I have 2 kids from previous marriage (we have custody of) My husband has 2 from previous marriage (we have custody of them too) and we have 2 together(under 4 years) His two for years where only seeing their mom 1st and 3rd weekend. All Im trying to say is you never know, trust your instincts and ask questions......Thats the only way to know for sure.