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Originally Posted by 2jersey We were contacted by a couple whose profile volunteers the following pertinent information: They are unmarried and looking for daytime play.
In their next message, they volunteer the information that they are not living together. And they explain that daytime play is necessary because their children return home from school around 3PM. (They mention nothing about having evening obligations, other than the fact that they have school age children.)
Okay - we consider ourselves to be selective and careful (others might apply more derogatory terminology). Yet, we generally exhibit good manners, and we certainly don’t want to insult anyone by asking insinuating questions.
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Anytime I read a profile from people saying they are looking for daytime play I am suspicious. To me this is code for "we're married/committed to other people and are cheating on them and are looking for others to join us in our escapades, want to join us?"
You've mentioned nothing about them offering to meet on the weekend so I'll presume this isn't an option for them, but even if they do bend and say "maybe" to that, I still think they're probably cheaters.
I don't touch these kind of requests with a ten foot poll. You can ask them if they are married to other people, but what good would it do? They'll probably lie to you. Then were are you? If they say no you still have to decide if you believe them and if you will accept their invitation to meet.
Of course all this advice is presuming you wouldn't be interested in playing with cheaters. If this doesn't matter to you, there is no need to ask them to clarify more about their relationship, all you need to say is "let's get together for some afternoon delight."
LM